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I've helped 300+ high-achieving women ditch the drink, take their power back, and build lives they love waking up to.

whether you're sober-curious, starting over (again), or ready to turn your own freedom into a career—we'll help you skip the shame, keep your privacy, and use a proven path that actually works for smart, busy women

hi! i'm Heather Lowe, an award-winning certified sober coach for women. maybe alcohol has stopped being your friend. maybe you're just sick and tired of being sick and tired. either way, i've been there, and I can help.

Hi! I'm Heather.I've helped 300+ high-achieving women ditch the drink, take their power back + build lives they love waking up to.

Whether you're sober-curious, starting over (again), or ready to turn your own freedom into a career — we'll help you skip the shame, keep your privacy, and use a proven path that actually works for smart, busy women

If alcohol is starting to take more than it gives,
I want you to know; there is nothing wrong with you

Meet Heather


Hi—I’m Heather Lowe,
BSW, CPRC, CPC, CFAA-HR, PHR


I started Ditched the Drink because I know what it feels like to look successful on the outside while feeling stuck in unhealthy patterns on the inside. I was filled with feelings, doubts, and questions too.


There’s nothing wrong with you if alcohol feels different now. These are signals, not failures, and they’re pointing you toward another way.


As a Certified Professional Life + Sobriety Coach (and a former corporate leader who’s walked this same road), I built this space to help smart, successful women create clarity, confidence, and freedom, without labels, pressure, or shame.

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because sometimes the biggest changes start with the gentlest yes

 
 

DEFINITION OF A DITCHED THE DRINK WOMAN

she's not "an alcoholic"
she's just over it

  • She's built a career, a family, a full life — and she's done letting alcohol quietly shrink it.
  • She's tired of the 3am math, the Monday promises, and wondering if she's the problem. She's not. The drink is.
  • She doesn't need a rock bottom or a label to choose better — being over it is reason enough.
  • And as she gets free, she discovers what the wine never told her: she was whole the entire time.

 

MEET HEATHER, YOUR SOBER COACH
HOW TO WORK WITH ME

four doors. pick yours.

The best sober coach for you is the one who's been where you are—and knows the way out. here's how we walk it together:

01 · THE COMMUNITY MEMBERSHIP

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Ditch the drink alongside the most supportive women's community on the internet—twice-a-week group coaching (replays always available), a private 24/7 app, masterclasses, workshops, challenges, a book club, IRL retreats, and first access and discounts on all offers. $34/mo.

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02 · THE 1:1 

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12 weeks of private coaching with a proven framework— just you and me. Personalized strategy, between-session support, and optional Human Design + custom Yoga Nidra sessions for deeper insight.

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03 · THE BUSINESS 

dare to dream

Turn your freedom into a career: ICF-accredited coach certification, business mentorship, and a mastermind community for alcohol-free entrepreneurs.

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04 · THE WORKPLACE

trainings + keynotes

Recovery-ready workplace trainings and keynote presentations that reach your people before silence does its damage, and wellness benefits that actually get used.

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trusted by 300+ women who were so over it—and now are free.

named on the Top 100 Sober Coaches list, Top Sober Coach by Coach Foundation, Top Life Coach for Addiction and Recovery by Life Coach Magazine, Sober Coach of the Year Finalist by Sans Bar Academy, and Most Influential Person in the alcohol-free space by AFter Magazine

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still have questions? 

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you don’t have to figure everything out today, but clarity helps
here are a few questions women often ask before getting started

THE MEMBERSHIP

ditch the drink alongside the most supportive community on the internet.

voted favorite support community by AFter Magazine

as an INsider you'll get group coaching twice a week from expert sober coaches (replays always available), a private women-only app and more

sober-curious or years in—this is the place for you

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ONE SMALL STEP

the drink kept its promises to no one

i keep mine

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