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Welcome! Whether youโ€™re taking your first steps toward sobriety, celebrating years of alcohol-free living, or simply seeking inspiration and support, you'll find genuine stories, practical advice, and compassionate support to help you on your journey.

Sobriety and Self-Discovery: How Coaching Can Transform Your Relationship with Alcohol alcohol-free alcohol-free lifestyle coaching sober sober challenge sober curious Mar 21, 2024

I want to be frank with you. There is no award to be won for being alcohol-free with the least amount of support possible. I know that's how we all try to do it. Me too. Like a middle schooler waiting for the bus in 30 degree weather with no jacket. We’re the cool kids. We’re good. We...

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Do I Have an Alcohol Problem? gray area drinking sober challenge sober curious Nov 01, 2022

I wake up in a panic

No desire to start my day

Thinking of last night

Oh God, what did I say?

 

Do I have an alcohol problem?

 

I chug a glass of water

On the table beside my bed

I recognize hangover symptoms

Starting with

My pounding head.

 

Do I have an alcohol problem?

 

I...

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I'm Never Drinking Again alcohol sober challenge soberaf May 03, 2021

It’s ok to start over.

 

I just have to share that. 

 

Especially with drinking.

 

If you’ve tried to quit before and it didn’t work…

...it’s ok to start again.

 

If you changed your mind or had some success or had no success…

...

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Alcohol Free Valentine sober challenge soberissexy Feb 03, 2021

I’ve been married over 18 years, so I am not one to give advice on dating.

What I can tell you is that even as a married gal, I want to be seen as an attractive person.

My fun, flirty, party girl persona is something I started in high school, along with drinking.

I wanted the fun part to...

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Sobriety Taught Me to Sit Still alcoholfree sober challenge sober curious Jan 13, 2021

As a Certified Professional Recovery Coach and Retired Party Animal, I know one main concern about ditching the drink, is the fear of a boring life. 

I understand this completely, because it was one of my greatest fears too. 

This is for the sober curious folks, a life of sobriety does...

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1000 Days Free From Alcohol alcoholfree sober challenge sober curious Nov 17, 2020

1000 Days Free from Alcohol.

Wow!

I am super proud of me.

I can’t believe I used to start everyday on the wrong side of the bed:

hungover, full of guilt/shame/fear, physically ill and in a bad mood.

How did I do this for years and then hate myself when I wasn’t happy with my life?

If...

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Want More Me Time? Get Rid of Alcohol sober sober challenge sober curious Oct 31, 2020

It is Saturday morning. 

I don’t have to get up.

It is 6:30 and still dark out.

I roll around in bed.

Pet the dog.

Lay and enjoy the slowness of the morning without the rush to get up.

My eyes are wide awake.

My body feels mostly good.

Maybe slightly puffy from the sushi last night,...

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Sober October Tricks and Treats alcohol free experiment sober challenge sober october Oct 05, 2020

Sober October is the second most popular alcohol free month of the year, followed by Dry January. As the weather gets cooler it's a perfect time to hunker down, and hit the reset button on your drinking before the holiday season picks up. 

If you are like me, many sober experiments start...

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The Magic Elixir alcoholfree alcoholfreeexperiment benefits sober challenge sober curious soberforthehealthofit sobernotboring Jun 17, 2020

Want to level up your life? I can help.

What if I told you that you could have all this just by giving up one thing. 

Would you be willing to do it? 

Giving up this one thing will save you money. 

You will look better. 

The results are proven, 

Your skin will become clear...

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My First Night Out, After Quitting Drinking alcohol free going out how to go out alcohol free how to go out without drinking sober challenge sober curious Feb 19, 2020

I am 2 years away from my last drink.

Looking back, I’d love to tell myself then, what I know now. 

The biggest lesson would be, that I wouldn't always feel the way I felt.

Getting sober was a process.

I had to go through each phase, before I reached the next.

Just because it didn't...

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Drinking at You motherhood sober challenge thebigthaw Aug 29, 2019

I heard quitting drinking is a lot like thawing out.

Its wet and messy and there are a lot of tears. I agree with this statement.

I went through a big thaw myself when I got sober.

At first, it was so hard to not have that drink to deal with the things I had been drinking away. The things I had...

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