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Elevate Your Thanksgiving Table with These Non-Alcoholic Wines alcohol free drinks alcohol free holidays non-alcoholic wine party sober thanksgiving Nov 19, 2024

Giving Thanks for Alcohol-removed Wines

by MO and Heather Lowe

As we prepare for our journey's home to family and friends, launching into old cookbooks for the dressing recipe, we are inclined to savor a sip of wine. Planning for Thanksgiving can be an epic challenge of making things "just...

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6 Ways to Pull Off the Best NA Soiree This Year alcohol-free drinks christmas holidays hosting party party sober Nov 18, 2024

Pulling off the best non-alcoholic (NA) holiday soirée is all about creating a festive, fun, and inclusive environment without relying on alcohol.

I’m Heather, the ultimate party girl turned sober coach. Trust me when I say I would not sustain sobriety if I wasn’t...

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The Intersection of Alcohol and Botox: Effects, Dangers, and How Alcohol Speeds Aging aging alcohol-free beauty botox Nov 15, 2024

 

Ditching the drink was the single best decision I could make for my health, my appearance, and my confidence. That being said, I am very transparent that I also started Botox during my alcohol-free journey. I am not about to keep secrets in shame. I am not ashamed about my Botox decision....

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Grief that Comes out Sideways grief Oct 23, 2024

My stepmom, Cheryl, died last week. We said our final goodbyes far in advance, about 18 months ago. I had the foresight to know it would be our last visit. I have been blessed with many known final visits with loved ones. This might sound morbid, but my mom always taught me how special it is to...

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Coaches vs. Content Creators: Why Coaching Is a Different Game business coach coaching social media Oct 09, 2024

In social media today, the terms “coach” and “content creator” are often thrown around interchangeably. Both coaches and content creators deliver value, inspire change, and build communities. But as someone deeply rooted in the coaching world, I can tell you there’s...

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Talking to Teens About Alcohol: A Sober Mom's Perspective alcohol parenting sober mom Sep 16, 2024

Talking to Teens About Alcohol: A Sober Mom's Perspective

As a sober mom, I’ve had my share of experiences with alcohol—both the good times and the not-so-good. Becoming sober was one of the most transformative decisions of my life, not just for me but for my family as well. Now that...

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No, I Don't Want Red Wine: Choosing Sobriety in a Culture of Drinking sober community sober travel social stigma wine Sep 11, 2024

I spent the weekend at Sober in the City, Seattle. I was the weekend MC and I hosted a Thought Leadership Collaborative. Working for myself from home has so many perks, but it does get lonely, so I cherish the pockets of time when I can be gathered in real life with clients, peers, and friends.I...

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Supporting National Recovery Month in September: How You Can Make a Difference recovery Sep 09, 2024

 

September is National Recovery Month, a time to celebrate those who are in recovery from substance use and mental health disorders, raise awareness about the importance of treatment, and reduce the stigma that often surrounds addiction. Whether you’re in recovery, know someone who...

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Labor Day Without Booze and Overcoming FOMO alcohol free holidays fomo sober mom Sep 04, 2024

Labor Day Weekend 2024 something got me, but let’s back up and start at the beginning. I am 6 ½ years sober and a sober coach. Alcohol has nothing to do with holiday weekends anymore.

The days of last chances to soak up summer and get wasted in pools and boats are long gone. In part...

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Harnessing Frenzied Energy: How to Boost Productivity Without Burning Out burnout business business coach productive Aug 20, 2024

Remember when I smashed it out of the park for a super productive July and then set up a Go Slow and Savor Challenge for August?

It’s backfiring. It is so hard for me to go slow and savor. I am not winning at my challenge, despite my best attempts. I am trying to spend time watching movies,...

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Sobriety and Belonging in Forced Social Situations sober sobriety social weekend Jul 15, 2024

My daughter had an out-of-state weekend soccer tournament last weekend. I love to watch my kids play sports. However, both as a drinker and as a person in early sobriety, these weekend away tournaments were my worst nightmare. From the long drives to the forced socializing, my anxiety is...

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Pick Me Girl Rejected business coach coach high achiever Jun 28, 2024

5 years ago, my company, Ditched the Drink, was brand new. As a new business owner, I took a gamble on myself and nominated myself for an award that my previous corporate job sponsored. I thought it would be a great way to bridge the gap between what I had done in my past career and what I was...

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How to Prepare for Dry July Right Now dry july sober holidays sober summer Jun 25, 2024

How to Prepare for Dry July Right Now

You probably already know that taking a break from alcohol can offer numerous health benefits, from improved sleep and energy levels to better mental clarity and weight loss. Just like making any change, there is prep work involved before you get started. If...

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Top 7 Things I Learned About Mocktails alcohol-free drinks alcohol-free events sober curious Jun 14, 2024

 

I participated in Drink Less Fest, an event put on by The Roaring Social and Charlotte Beverage Distribution, both organizations founded by Casey Dolan. 

 

Drink Less Fest combined non-alcoholic beverage brands with folks in hospitality and sober and sober curious locals. The...

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Loving Your Body Through The Seasons alcohol and health body seasons May 13, 2024

 

Spring, like any transition, can be a tough time. Pulling out of winter with new expectations. Lighter days are filled with pressure to enjoy them. The opposite of what has helped me get through the first few months of the year. You see, to survive the midwest winter, the answer at the end...

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Beyond the Bottle: Thoughtful Mother's Day Gift Ideas for Every Mom alcoholfree lifestyle gifts mother mother's day motherhood May 02, 2024

Mother’s Day often conjures images of flowers, breakfast in bed, and heartwarming cards expressing love and appreciation. A trend that's gained momentum, diverging from the traditional gifts of chocolate and pampering treats, is a culture of "Mommy needs wine." 

Yes, you read that...

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Empowered Sobriety: Transform Your Life with Expert Coaching client stories coach coaching Apr 26, 2024

This might surprise you, but the reason you can’t quit drinking might have little to do with alcohol. Yes, it’s a highly addictive substance that is hard to move away from, but if you are like me, you have seen some success by gritting it out for 30 days, alcohol-free. After that, you...

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Bittersweet Symphony - On Leaving a Legacy alcoholfree grief sober coach sobriety Apr 16, 2024

I got happy and sad news at the same time yesterday. First, a phone call revealed that my friend, Tracy, who had been bravely battling cancer for 3+ years, had passed away. Then I received a text from a previous client, who just celebrated three years of being alcohol-free, I considered the...

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From the 9-5 Grind to Becoming a Coach Working Part Time From Home business entrepreneur recovery coach Apr 12, 2024

In 2019, I was one year sober and between jobs.

I was interviewing for new positions and about to get offers from some companies for similar roles that I had in the past. I sold HR solutions for most of my adult life. I was qualified for roles like this. Although I could do these jobs and I...

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6 Common Myths About Coaching business coach coach coaching life coach recovery coach sober coach Mar 27, 2024

I’ve been a coach for five years. I partner with a top rated credentialing authority to recruit, train, and mentor other coaches. With a degree in social work, I started as a skeptic when it came to the world of coaching. I didn’t know what I didn’t know. I didn’t think I...

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Sobriety and Self-Discovery: How Coaching Can Transform Your Relationship with Alcohol alcohol-free alcohol-free lifestyle coaching sober sober challenge sober curious Mar 21, 2024

I want to be frank with you. There is no award to be won for being alcohol-free with the least amount of support possible. I know that's how we all try to do it. Me too. Like a middle schooler waiting for the bus in 30 degree weather with no jacket. We’re the cool kids. We’re good. We...

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Conscious Alcohol Consumption, Mindful Drinking, and Moderation mindfulness moderation sober Mar 13, 2024

It’s all about balance, they say, and that might be true for many things; however, there's no reason to find balance with alcohol. Alcohol is an addictive substance that creates dependence; you are not missing out on any internal happiness or joy by not consuming it.  

I am all...

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9 Ways I Honor Black History Month in the Alcohol Free Space business coach diversity sober Feb 26, 2024

I am sharing a few examples of how to honor Black History Month.

I try to do many of these things year-round. Black History Month serves as a nice reminder to evaluate my efforts and add to them as well. I hope you can implement and add to these ideas. 

Consider the source here. I am a...

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6 Years of Sobriety, My Head in the Clouds, My Feet on Solid Ground emotions sober coaching sober milestones Feb 21, 2024

I turned 6 years sober yesterday. It was anticlimactic and tranquil. This was a big change from the previous year, when I had an absolute meltdown over my five year milestone. 

 

You can read about it in these blogs:

5 Years Sober, A New Home Inside of Me

5 Years Sober, Here's What I...

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